ok. so the story starts from when i left work to town. i had to end work at 6. but ha.. the gathering was kinda not a gathering. but luckily joyce was there. she waited for me! gosh. tat's so nice. and when i saw her. i just dint know what to say. cute, in fashion, very fresh look... its like a mixture of all these. so if u were not happy with my comments yesterday, here's what i think after thinking thru thoroughly..
went on to meet fanny and piglet. the ever unseparable twins. exchanged a few blows with piglet. and down we went to marche because bobby pua was super super hungry. ate calamari, soft shell crab (courtesy of fanny), rosti sausage (courtesy of joyce), pizza, and spagetti. and it was quite enough to keep me full for the next 3 hours? but there was just some problems brewing that i could smell from the tip of my nose. where are the others who told me they would be here? shant name names, but the most shocking one was the message i received
'oh gosh, m i supposed to meet u guys todae? i forgot about it and going home already! sorry!'
yea man. but i think right from the start the diversity of culture in the class was just kinda too great. and sometimes from time to time.. even i myself will tend to feel more comfortable with some people rather then others. but these people might not exactly feel the same way about me? get what i mean?
take for example huat loves to hang out with bobby. but bobby thinks huat is kinda irritating. understood?
so sometimes we've gotta think for ourselves too. and if we are irritating others with our actions which we think is good for others.
back to the dinner. alvin came! haha. he got new specs agn! gosh. does he like change specs every half a year? and joyce had to go... den she left. den jasmine came! and somehow they all stopped talking. so we had to leave the place to find somewhere to go. it was really kinda hard navigating thru orchard. the simple stretch from heeren to rolex took us like 10mins? gee. they had all sorta weird performance. some totally not associated with christmas at all.
bumped into joyce chin. she's still looking like a tai tai and all. haha. but it was so crowded and piglet kept talking to her. i had no chance to talk much to her. stupid piglet. den after awhile pravin walked pass.. i wanted to call out but it was too crowded. and he breezed past me... well..
proceeded to taka.. and jasmine left. den everyone else kinda suddenly missed home or something and had to go off. then i was there feeling kinda disappointed. because nothing much happened? suddenly remembered joyce was still ard! went down to dhouby ghaut to wait for her to finish her bible studies.
and guess what? we had our starbucks reunion. was like our fave pastime before i enlisted. and even though we still meet up after i enlist. somehow we just did not go starbucks, sit there and have our hours long worth of talking cock anymore! really really miss those days. me lili joyce. going around looking for job. but somehow always end up spending money. eating and drinking coffee in between looking for jobs. haha. and how can i forget our fave of the fave pastime~ song singing! heee.. feels so gd just thinking back about it. so fun. have to go one of these days. it's been so long i think i forgot how to sing song already! gosh. if i'm gonna go on reminiscing abt those times i think i can just go on forever..
love talking cock buddies. heee.. they are like so hard to come by nowadays. where so many ppl jus wan to find something to do when they come out. must haf something fun and enticing. something so simple and plain like sitting down and chatting over coffee would just seem too boring for them,
we talked about many things. i complained to her about work.. oh.. and she seems to be a pro complainee (person being complained to). there was a question that i brought up. so does adam and eve have umblical cords? a question to ponder upon. i kinda drifted topic here. haha. back to where we were... and also saying that all fathers cannot survive without their newspapers. newspapers are their companion over breakfast.. on the toilet bowl.. back from work... and i honestly don't think i will become like that one day. how mothers are such precise alarm clocks to everyone. and how we get bullied by our fathers.
its all this small things that can actually make life more interesting. learn more about each other. know about each other's habit. like eating nasi lemak with only rice and egg.. not eating noodles because you don't know what time u're waking up. not happy with the breakfast our mummy buy.. loving oreo cheesecakes... don't eat chilli but take macdonald's chilli. and how u are angry with the hairdresser because she dint do anything to your hair except cutting washing and drying (wat else can she do?!)
all these things are so small. but they teach us big things about each other. and i always believed that remembering smaller things will be more meaningful and thoughtful then remembering big big things. please cherish people that you can talk to and share these thoughts with. from my personal experience. it really is hard to come by. so thankz joyce aka ma tong!
and sometimes suddenly. they will just disappear.friends that had been close to you, friends that spent time with youfriends you enjoy being with.. and when that happens, u'll be knocking yourself as to why did you not treasure the times where both had time and both were talking. and you'll wonder what really happened. what caused the drifting apart. but you'll never find out i guess.
